How To Know If The Man You Want To Date Is Married

This is the question you have to ask your self if you feel like he is not being 100% upfront with you.  But as a woman with a woman's intuition then you already have the answer.  A lot of time women don't chose to see the warning signs in front of them and chose to ignore that nagging voice in their mind that says "maybe I'm not the only one!"  If you have been through this before with a man cheating and not being true then you are more than equipped with the knowledge to solve this question on your own. 

A lot of the problems between men and women can be resolved if both parties were upfront about their intentions with each other.  A man should tell a woman he meets if he is seeing someone else and a woman should tell a man she likes up front what she expects from a relationship.  These are the things that need to be discussed when you are in the courting stages where the two of you are just starting to talk on the phone long before the first date or the first sexual encounter.  Too many time relationships start with sex and then someone ends up disappointed when the other person shows no emotional attachment to the other person.  This happens to both men and women.  And the results lead to men being called "a dog" and women being called "slut" when things go awry.  It's a no win situation especially if the casual encounters lead to a child being brought into the mix.  So lets talk about the warning signs.

1. Sex seems to be the object of every conversation

2. He makes up excuses every time you ask to come to his home

3. You have been dating for a while and have not met his parents

4. If he brings you around his friends but never really introduces you properly

5. Your dates are always in secluded or far away locations

6. He doesn't say he loves you even after several months of dating you

7. You always get his voicemail or an "I will call you back" when you call him.

8. When you are out and in public and he takes you quickly in another direction

9. He cannot define your relationship when you ask "what am I to you?"

10. You ask him to move in with you and he is never ready

11. You have kids and he shows no interest in knowing them at all

There are many more sign to watch out for but if 2 or more of these are true for you then you should question if he is cheating on you, if he is seeing another woman, if he is married, or if he is really into you.

If you have to question your relationship then it is not much of a relationship.  Often time women want to be loved so much and want to believe in the good in a person that they overlook the signs that a man is giving them and they go in head first into a dead end relationship.  Often times a man will intentionally give a woman signals and act a certain way to let a woman know that he is not interested in more than a sexual relationship.  There is a book written by comedian Steve Harvey called "Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man" that is a recommended read for any woman even those who are in a long term relationship or marriage.  This book is the #1 Best Selling Relationship book the country for a few months now and he has been all over the airwaves talking about and promoting this book.  I recommend you read this and I hope that what you read here is of some help.  Thanks and please comment on this hub.